There will always be other people who can love you better.You do not decide their choices for them, and they don’t get to shunt that off on you.
People need to want to improve before they can actually improve, and if they’re threatening to harm themselves to keep you around, they’re using your love to hold themselves hostage. At the end of the day, if they want to hurt themselves in any way, they will, and you can’t stop them forever.
You are not responsible for saving anyone. 
You should not have to be afraid of someone’s reaction to your boundaries. Violence, outbursts, retaliation, anything.
It is not healthy or normal to be genuinely afraid of saying “no” to someone, for any reason at all. Sweet words and gifts and gestures don’t erase being frightened for yourself or for your loved ones. “It’s not like that all the time” is optimistic and sweet, but the truth is, it shouldn’t be like that at all. Nothing constructive comes from screaming. That’s easier if they control the narrative and your friends aren’t there to cut in. This person cannot handle accepting responsibility and processing criticism so they need you to never, ever question them. Nothing good ever, ever comes from someone who tells you, “ I don’t want you talking about our relationship with anyone”. If someone tells you that “ the way I’m acting is your fault because you know that doing X thing would make me do it and you chose to do it anyway” is just fancy bullshit talk for, “I know my behaviour is wrong, but I don’t want to be held responsible for it so I’m pushing it on you”. There is never any justification for someone putting their hands on you in any way without your consent short of immediate risk of harm or death. If the diapers have a large capacity, they will in fact hold a lot.Please don’t ask me for relationship advice unless you are prepared to receive some truly upsetting information because some people are ready for the “ He’s exhibiting the literal textbook signs of a psychological abuser and you need to get away from him before he successfully cuts you off from your support network” talk and some people aren’t My most recent quadruple diaper was something in the range of 17000ml total capacity. To minimize this issue I stand up to avoid putting unnecessary weight on the diaper after I suspect the 2nd layer is nearing capacity.ģ bonus point) I typically wear 2 or more diapers that hold 3000ml or more minimum. In my case I usually stand the majority of the time to help with point 2 so I keep my legs straight.Ģ) It takes some time for fluid to flow between multiple layers of diapers and if you put weight on a diaper that has un unabsorbed it will just go straight to the sides and typically leak. So if you’re going to be sitting the whole time then you’ll want your legs to be in a sitting position. The main reasons diapers leak are improper taping jobs or putting too much weight on them while fluid is still being captured by the SAP.ġ) The position you’re legs are in when you tape the diapers on should match the way you plan on keeping your legs for the duration of its wear time. diaper training, wearing at work, keep my diapers from leaking as best I can. Abdl tumblr how to#
& tricks on how to enjoy the AB/DL world (e.g. AB/DL story writers, either as single/multi-part stories or diapergirlstories Abdl Couple on Tumblr abdlcouple520 cukiboi soggystrawberry Soggy Baby abdlcouple520 nappy-lover-25 outdoordiapers-deactivated20151 Lucy returns wearing her Molicare diaper out by the train tracks with a couple passing by. who know how to make sure that their littles are properly diapered:. Girls living their best 24/7-diapered life (… or at least wear and enjoy their diapers a lot): No blogs with mainly commercial interests. Blogs mentioned have been active within the last few months. Some of the blogs are mentioned in several categories. Keep in mind you need to be a content creator, just re-blogging is not enough. If your blog is not included but you wish to be added, please send me a PM and which category you would like to see your blog added to. All blogs are of course exclusively run by and about adults. 
Since my post received lots of likes but is a bit outdated by now, I decided to provide another (most likely incomplete) overview for all of you diaper-weirdos out there.
A while ago, I answered someone who asked if I could recommend more ABDL blogs here on Tumblr.
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